Charly Boy’s daughter, Dewy Oputa, has finally opened up on her sexuality and how difficult it was for her parents to accept her sexual orientation.
Dewy, who shocked Nigerians earlier in the week after she came out publicly as a lesbian, said she shared the post because she got tired of hiding and decided it was time to live in her truth.
On her decision to come as a lesbian, she said, “My mission for creating a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer platform is to provide a safe place for youths in the African community.
“I strive to create an accepting and welcoming community where everyone is free to express themselves and be loved for who they are. I want a place where individuals such as myself can create authentic friendships and thrive as the person they were born to be.”
The US-based Dewy, admitted that it was not easy for her parents when she revealed her sexuality to them.
I can’t pinpoint the exact age I found out about my sexuality, but I was much younger. When I came out to my parents, it took them a while to adjust but my happiness comes first. I don’t feel bad about the negative comments my sexuality post has generated.
“I knew Nigerians would always have negative things to say and I was mentally prepared for it. I’m not here to sway anybody’s point of view; I’m here to bring awareness,” she said.
Speaking on whether she nurses any fear about coming to Nigeria considering that there is an anti-gay law in place in the country, the stylist and property management practitioner said, “To be honest, I do not have any fears. I think there are far more critical issues that are yet to be resolved. So, why should my sexual orientation affect the next man?
“Nigerians that have a problem with the LGBTQ community need to mind their business and focus on the critical life and death situation at hand. Love has never killed the next man.”